When she began in the panty business on Reddit, she said she took pains to hide her face or other identity-markers. A careful use of make-up in order to strengthen and underline special attractive traits in you face can increase the excitement, for example some darkening of your eyebrows or some shading under your eyes. The clothes should attract your attention towards your most intimate areas, for example by means of lines or structures pointing that way. Your clothes should also visualize the shape of your intimate zones and the shape of body parts you find especially attractive. By prioritizing sex on your agenda and in your thoughts you will get your body moving in the right direction. Heavy use of make-up will have the opposite effect. They use it to keep in touch with their friends supporting, helping and growing relationships. And then start all over and keep moving forward. A woman on the other hand has over 200 items in her bathroom.