However the Internet may also be the closest many narcissists get to psychodynamic therapy. Reality beckons and few narcissists resist its siren name. A few retreat and confine themselves to the company of adoring sycophants and unquestioning groupies. If the answer is "sure", then, in all chance, we are coping with a narcissist or a psychopath. In his fantasies, the narcissist or psychopath is always in unmitigated control of the setting. Even when the narcissist incorporates his real-life partner in his fantasies, he is sure to deal with her as a mere prop, a body to masturbate with, in, or on, or an object to be "defiled" in acts comparable to group intercourse, swinging (wife-swapping), or outright sexual deviance (examples: urophilia, or coprophilia.) This crude and overt denigration serves to render her a "slut", or a "whore" in his mind, the type of lady with whom he can have lustful, emotion-free intercourse. Such imaginarium invariably results in acts of self-stimulation, the ultimate manifestations of auto-eroticism. Initially, it could heighten and sharpen his paranoia and lead him to compensate by extending and deepening his grandiosity.