By definition, mother inlaw sex addiction is an intimacy disorder, so couples work has to start with education about intimacy skills, including honest self-disclosure, communication skills, healthy sex, having fun and developing a joint vision of the future. The sexual anorexic’s main goal is to find ways to separate intimacy and sex. As a result of cybersex, a couple’s marriage is compromised and children within the home are harmed in numerous ways. The American Bar Association cites that in 2011 a whopping 50% of the divorces it handles have cybersex implicated in the couple’s demise. Cybersex is the use of electronic communications for sexual diversion and includes email, texting, and internet porn. Below is a case example of a couple who suffered the consequences of cybersex in their marriage. If either of those is the case then that is the reason she is not putting out. But if you think you can just sit and watch TV naked and expect thousands of tippers, then this business is not for you.