I started laughing at "she's finally lost it" and didn't stop until I got to "thank you for your faithfulness". I should have walked away from her at the age of 17 and never returned, but I stayed put, and helped her in many ways, as she got older. Then I had looked at her phone one day and she had text her aunt 'u got that message fr me aunty'. The teenager - who had been on a working holiday - was said to have been told by the police she could go home in a week which then became 10 days. We were in our own bubble and so happy for the first 5 years, then in late 2010 she started hanging around with her aunt who is kinda shady to say the least. He chose to say no to my help, my love. I have/am going through similar roads as you (my husband walking out on me for another user older than him, returning for help, getting possessions out of pawn). ’ I remember just looking at him, shocked," Sara recalls.