You aren't a surfer awaiting the next wave arrive in. Both you and only you've got create your own Momentum they are you toward creating your Miracle! Nobody will do the work for you. The letter "M" means Momentum, which is created on your part.
To do otherwise would be deliberately unkind. When we choose the latter, we're being untrue to ourselves, the biggest sin just about all. Once we realize and accept our hurtful behavior we want to step onto our healing path you have to the route.