Most Latin clubs will play some bachata music over the course of the night. Techno clubs, shows and festivals turn the music volume up to ridiculous levels which can make it nearly impossible to have a conversation unless your mouth is right up to her ear so I suggest pulling a few silly moves on the dancefloor to catch her attention. 1. I will whisper in the ear of the original girl "Let’s make friends" and then just lead her to the second set. 3. The elbow opener; a lot of times I will just tap the elbow of the second girl and pull her into dance with us. If she accepts lead her to an outdoor patio or quieter area by a bar for some actual conversation, if you are still detecting some physical timidity don’t go for holding hands, instead just offer her your elbow old school gentleman style. She continues the assault with the lead pipe as Ringmistress jumps for joy at the display. Actually what’s ideal is to open a 2-set of other girls together, at least two of the three girls will hit it off and appreciate you for making the introduction.



This fact makes them ideal lovers. You are going to have to be more upfront with your statements of intent, a lot of guys actually go salsa dancing just because they enjoy dancing, in fact I know some gay guys who are awesome dancers and tear it up with the girls at straight salsa clubs. Between them, we have disco tits, femmebots, a crown of fuck-its, musical numbers about waxing your asshole, the methodical application of a highlight, sweaty clubs as a refuge, and a liberal disregard for all things "ladylike" in favor of transparency - both literal and figurative. Either way if she declines your proposed mini excursion, go for the number close, we all know a lot of these kinds of numbers flake but with good text game sometimes we can get them out on a Day Two. So it’s worth the 60 seconds it takes to get her digits and the 30 seconds it take the next day to text her.





If you get physical compliance after a few minutes suggest some fresh air or a drink (I prefer fresh air), emphasize the brevity of the little trip together you are proposing (time constraint, you have to go find your friends in the venue or text somebody). You drunk friends are lost somewhere in the venue also. I need to find my friends too. Honestly this is not a place that I’m an expert, of my group of expat friends in Colombia the ones who devoted their cultural adaption time to learning Spanish did better with the girls than the ones who devoted this time to learning salsa dancing. This is not really the time or place for verbal game, instead you want to make bold or silly statements with that will hook her attention, like the ones referenced above. This is actually the opposite of try what he says you should be doing, you want to get into an interaction with another girl as soon as possible; this is how you build momentum towards a really epic night. Private means that only those who pay the fee get to see it. A lot of guys like to play the whole ‘I don’t know how to salsa dance’ card but women know that guys who are clueless on the dance floor are also probably clueless in bed.



You may have heard that the best time to open a new girl is while you are already talking to one; this is especially true on the dance floor. Spending 5 minutes stretching in your house (or in the club’s bathroom) before you hit the dance floor is going to make you more limber, fluid and fun on the dancefloor. Stretching afterwards is equally important, I’ve woke up to some excruciatingly painful cramps after a night of bump n’grinding with girls, which are easily prevented with stretching before bed and sufficient hydration. Self-confidence and the fear of being a burden on people has always been something I’ve struggled with so I suspect that’s part of it. It’s a more effective way of playing the numbers, towards finding a girl that’s interested in you and actually worth your time. Sometimes that’s the hard way. In addition to patients like Laurence, world-class singers such as Celine Dion and John Mayer have made their way to Dr. Berke for help with their ailing vocal instruments and then been public in their support of his work. Let’s just dance for a minute then? The best Latin dance for pick up is bachata, it’s whole lot closer and more sexual, less big swinging movements, you basically shuffle back and forth while lifting up your inner leg while holding her close enough to have a decent conversation.