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She claims that mystery, newness, physical activity, and joint endeavors increase the chemical levels in the brain that make us feel elated, in-love, passionate, energetic, high. These contribute to couples’ misconceptions, expectations and negative images of self and other that impede establishing and maintaining real levels of intimacy including mutually satisfying sexual interactions. There are 5 Gears of Physical Intimacy according to Couple Sex Therapy Expert, Dr. Barry McCarthy, author of Rekindling Desire. Couples that are having difficulties or who are not fully satisfied in their relationship usually have only two out of these gears. Integrating additional physical intimacy gears to the couple’s repertoire of interactions assist in creating the anti-avoidance mind set, promotes arousal/desire, and are a source of novelty. These couples’ situation is compounded when they bring into the relationship distorted views and definitions of intimacy and sexuality. So give him sufficient time to accommodate your feelings towards you and the relationship.



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