I have written this article to explore the types of committed relationships where simply being able to say we 'love' the person we are with is enough, and we don't need to be 'in love' (as in the 'old fashioned' sense of the word), in order to see a long and healthy future for the relationship. I can honestly say I have seen those relationships both work and fail (maybe it depends on how old you both are at the time of the relationship). If you read this article you can see that frequently relationships not fueled purely on 'dopamine' and 'butterflies in the stomach' are ultimately the strongest and happiest relationships of all! It may well be a case of you having to distance yourself from this man in order to give him a chance to realise he misses you and that maybe looking for all the teenage type butterflies in the stomach type of relationship isn't the right way to go.



Also, rock music has very aggressive themes which may not be good for children to hear. They may be "comfortable" or "content" with their decision to remain together. Hey, if I end up marrying a dramatic supermodel I know that it will probably end in divorce, and I'd probably do it for publicity and status alone (it's honestly a part of me, so who knows..it'd be fun for a while), but the only thing that will last is really to marry a traditional woman who doesn't have all of the drama that beautiful, independent women bring to the table. After 5 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids, I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. After a while the brain decides we no longer need the chemicals as we are now, 'an established couple', and then the true test of if we are really 'in love' begins! Perhaps people still believe the 'ideal' is the whole passionately in love thing, therefore they want that for their kids, forgetting that in reality this is not all that likely and that perhaps the long term contentment comes from different stimuli like security, mutual respect etc. Who knows for sure, but if you recognise that the 'in love' feeling is a chemical reaction in the body, it then becomes more acceptable to realise that other things can be more significant over many years.



Would it really be so bad if they were to decide to marry each other or become a long term couple! Whilst these marriages are sometimes completely fake, there are times when the couple do grow to have a love for each other as time passes. Hi Kelly, new free sex there is more a problem with the relationship you are in than anything else, so it is no wonder you are looking outside of it for solutions. I remember reading this passage daily when I was going through a financial problem and it gave me peace until God answered my prayers. Imagine for instance a scenario where a mature man has no real interest in a new free Sex life any more, or maybe he has a problem with impotence. I truly hold the REAL worlds record of the most girlfriends of any man on earth! Have just encountered that twenty record travel time is great, thirty moments is OK, then again forty recount is just too lengthy.



What do you say then? If they give them a 'relationship' based on this love for whatever time they have left, then surely this is a good relationship. We have a good life except for this, but unfortunatelly starts to affect every aspect that used to worked somehow. Trust me, I have opted for the so called 'ideal' on at least four occasions, and none of them worked out for various reasons, however, the marriage I am in now is happy and secure, and I love my partner dearly. At this point one partner or the other, (missing their 'fix'), goes looking for it elsewhere. Can a relationship work if the people are not in love with each other, or if only one of the two people is in love with the other? You can also get double layer laced boy shorts that have a second layer inside. Dads usually want a boy so they can have a son that is like him who perhaps will be a great person.